"Intimate relationships are not luxuries, but fundamental to human life."
- Terry Real
I am Tapas Dwivedi.
Relationship Coach for Couples & Individuals
I help partners improve their relationship communication, identify the root of their recurring issues, and build skills to deepen their emotional connection.
Training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
RLT is a direct and action-oriented method that encourages personal accountability and acknowledges that relationships involve both harmony and disharmony.
Relational Life Therapy
By Terry Real
What is Relational Life Therapy?
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a bold, transformative approach to couples work developed by renowned therapist and author Terry Real.
Unlike traditional therapies that focus solely on communication skills or insight, RLT dives deeper—challenging power imbalances, calling out toxic patterns with compassion, and helping partners reconnect with honesty and accountability.
It’s a no-nonsense, deeply respectful method that blends psychological insight with direct coaching, making it especially effective for modern relationships.
How it works
1. Intro Call
We begin with a short introductory call to get to know each other. You’ll share what’s been going on in your relationship and how each of you feels. I’ll explain how I work, and you’re welcome to ask any questions about me or my approach.
2. Assessment
The assessment gives us a clear understanding of what’s happening in your relationship—what’s working, what’s not, and where the deeper pain points lie. We look at your current dynamics, explore the early days of your relationship, and when helpful, bring in your individual family histories to see how old patterns may be showing up between you.
3. Continued Work
Once we have clarity, we begin the real work: helping you step out of outdated roles or coping strategies, and into a more connected, conscious way of relating. We build new relational skills together—around communication, boundaries, repair, and emotional presence—so you both feel more seen, safe, and fulfilled in the relationship.
Testimonials
"Working with you has helped me gain clarity in my relationships & personal journey - it’s been easier to process my relationship and personal struggles and for me to find more peace in the process. It’s not only the questions you ask but also how you encourage me to sit with what’s uncomfortable and find the meaning among the mess. Thank you Tapas!"
Tristan Lim
"Tapas is very supportive and caring, with a bright and curious mind. When we worked together, we was very sensitive to my emotional needs and always challenged me on what can be improved."
Ekatarina Tartary
"Tapas listens with his whole heart and works with you, step-by-step, to fully understand the issues and find connection--even if it feels impossible. He's invaluable in transforming our relationship!"
Stephanie Taylor
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